In 2015, Park Memorial was trusted with the care of the late Carol Stevens and her family. Carol had died after a very short, courageous and hope-filled journey with cancer. She was so determined that she would beat her terminal diagnosis, she became unwilling to talk about her final wishes with her family. Her daughter, Kristie, tried to broach the subject with her mom, but she was flatly denied. “I’m not talking about this. I can’t. Because I want to live.”
Kristie asks: “How do you talk to someone about death who still holds hope that they will not die.”
When Carol passed away, her family arrived at Park Memorial to look after her funeral arrangements… with no idea of what her personal wishes had been. In their state of shock, sadness and grief, they had to guess and agree together on how best to honour their wife and mother.
“If Mom had taken care of her arrangements, there would have been no question what Mom wanted. You don’t want to make these decisions when you’re foggy and your heart is broken.”
But HOW do you broach the subject of final wishes with a loved one? Here are some tips to help:
“Knowing what I know now… if my mom had pre-planned her funeral, I would have burst out in tears with relief."
Society holds such fear and ‘taboo’ around talking about death and dying. Park Memorial is committed to normalizing the conversation around death and dying in our community so that families like Carol’s can have peace that they are honouring their loved one’s wishes, while being free from having to guess at making so many critical decisions.
Can we assist with your conversation with a loved one? We have many ideas to help and can be reached seven days a week at
780-426-0050 or by email at
info@parkmemorial.com.
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4814 50 St, AB T9C 1R6
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